From: USA TODAY
Read these lips: Bush gets quite continental
By Maria Puente, USA
TODAY
President Bush has bussed two women in public in the past two days.
First, Condoleezza Rice, whom he kissed on the cheek twice when he
nominated her for secretary of State on Tuesday. He went even
further with Margaret Spellings, whom he smacked on the lips when he
nominated her as secretary of Education on Wednesday.
Eyebrows, as they say, shot up and waggled. It was such a ...
European gesture for the aw-shucks-I'm-jes'-a-Texan president.
Besides, in these fearful times — you know, terrorism, sexual
harassment lawsuits — isn't this sort of thing a no-no in a business
setting? (Related story: Readers react to Bush's affection toward
appointees)
"I see nothing wrong with giving someone a peck on the cheek if he
has a close relationship with her, but in business, in general,
kissing on the lips would not be appropriate," says Jacqueline
Whitmore, head of the Protocol School of Palm Beach, who instructs
executives on the do's and don'ts of business etiquette. Her rule:
When in doubt, don't.
In fact, Bush does have long and close relationships with both
women: Rice, who has been his foreign policy adviser since he ran
for president, has become practically a member of the first family.
And he described Spellings, who worked for him in Austin, as an
"incredible, special" person. Moreover, it could be argued that it
was Spellings who initiated the kiss, after giving him a pat on the
back. Plus, all this kissing and hugging is supposed to be a
"Southern" thing; Bush, who considers himself a Texas Southerner,
hugs people a lot, say White House reporters.
Risky business, says Amy Oppenheimer, a California business
consultant on workplace harassment issues. Powerful men kissing
their subordinates in public can be misconstrued by the kissee or
people watching the kiss.
And there's the whole male-female thing, too: Bush didn't kiss his
close pal Alberto Gonzales when he nominated him for attorney
general last week.
"Kissing is social behavior, not professional behavior, and people
have different boundaries about it," says Oppenheimer. "The only
person who would know if (a woman is) uncomfortable with it is her —
and why would she say anything if she weren't?" The White House had
no comment.
Also on Wednesday, Bush pardoned the White House Thanksgiving
turkey. But he didn't kiss it.
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